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Posted by re-write #25 on March 16, 2014 - 20:30
Posted by someone on January 29, 2014 - 13:11

Can you even hear yourself speak? You feel so superior and all-knowing compared to the rest of us that I'm not even going to bother disproving some of your statements, the fact that the whole essay is based on nothing but your own overgrown ego, makes the endeavor mute. Please, do us all a favor and place your head in the microwave, hopefully that will shrink it a little.
Posted by re-write #24 on January 18, 2014 - 07:35 pm
This entry from the first guestbook has yet to be found on a back up copy. If and when I find it, I will add it here.
Posted by re-write on January 18, 2014 - 07:33 pm
Original entry: 23. Puddle - 2013-01-08 08:46:05

Check out the song "Dogs" on Pink Floyd Animals. Very psychopathic oriented.
Posted by re-write on January 18, 2014 - 07:33 pm
Original entry: 22. lansophie - 2012-09-01 02:17:54

Thank you for your sharing. After all Iíll be subscribing to your feed and I hope you write again soon!
Posted by re-write on January 18, 2014 - 07:32 pm
Original entry: 21. Lea - 2012-08-09 22:53:45
http://www.cassiopaea.org/cass/official_culture.htm

PS (last one I promise).........$5.oo? Paypal is an excellent option for those not inclined to leave the computer!If you have an account/ link.......please send it!Iíll send ya $10!

This was a good read.

Being a psychopath HAS the advantage. They are incomplete humans? Or perhaps not. Perhaps the "preview" of Humans changing in the natural evolution of survival is upon us. And yes, Surviving among them, the inevitable happens, one adapts and "changes" to survive, taking on, what is needed, to a degree....Created psychopaths. THEY emulate US...the future may be a reverse of this.
Posted by re-write on January 18, 2014 - 07:32 pm
Original entry: 20. Lea - 2012-08-09 21:51:35
http://www.syntheory.com/psychopathy/backfire/index.html

While Iím on a roll....for those who were ALSO mesmerized by a PSYCHOPATH....as I was......give this a listen.
Truth be told? I wanted...."something beautiful".

www.youtube.com/watch?v=oafNNDXJHkU
Posted by re-write on January 18, 2014 - 07:31 pm
Original entry: 19. Lea - 2012-08-09 21:42:36
http://www.syntheory.com/psychopathy/backfire/index.html

I GOT IT! A sliver of confidence back! ďITĒ beingÖmy faith in myself! I think YOU should put that letter on youtube as a test ofÖÖÖ. CAN YOU SPOT A PSYCHOPATH! Your article~ An American Obsession ... the Psychopath, (thanks for the occasional laugh BTW!) was good, BUT the ďletterĒ? (When a Adult Childís Plan Backfires) was for ME ďas ifĒ reading a letter ďstructuredĒ by my ex Psycho. They say once youíve been with a psychopath you can spot them, most are to damage to even date again. NO ONE wants to "test" their skills, what if they havenít learned to spot them? I got a shiver, reading that letter. Right behind the shiver came YES!, A glimmer of hope in my world of ďdo I have any protectionĒ? When? if ever will I consider ďthinkingĒ about allowing another in my life. The second I started reading it, miss use of grammar, spelling, flow of thought, ALL exactly as my ex. Aside from the 1 yr rule! WRITING to me is mandatory now!!! YES it is! ANY psycho that entertains the thought of ME on the target list again? Better have a degree in LANGUAGE ARTS! Donít know if I am allowed, but edit as pleases you! FOR THE VICTUMSÖI offer thisÖÖ saferelationshipsmagazine.com/living-the-gentle-life-part-1
Posted by re-write on January 18, 2014 - 07:30 pm
Original entry: 18. shauna - 2012-03-12 19:25:26

OMg, Iím no major but, iíve been reading this stuff for the past 6-7 years. iím a hairstylist, actually. but i have been also dealing with someone that i canít quite put my finger on because i am not a doctor and iím not licenced. In the meantime I feel blessed that i am able to read and i do it because i have to. I live with someone like this! this person has done everything imaginable except physically try to kill me. And he quite possibly could have done that too! so far, I learned that his mother is abusive and damaging. she tried it on me! almost like split personalities! way far from my ordinary!;((( I moved away from home at 21 to find work in another province accross canada.At the time, i was single from a breakup from my bowfiend of 6 years. yes I was young, and that might lead to why i was so niave. we were broke up for a year and i felt that I needed a change at 21 and i moved to calgary. He moved out there a week later. We started to see each other again. Im guessing because of being firmilair?! we got back together for another 6 years. When we probably shouldnít have?! Iím praying that youíre going to say that everything happenes for a reason???? I have always been a lover and have been in love with the idea of love ;)But i knew that my long time boyfriend wasnít him. We, I broke up with him when I was 27. What a spin my life has taken since then. I thought i met the love of my life at 28. Figured that he was the one that I would marry. I have always been a lover. why? Now i see the signs! I met a psychopath, narrisists, sociopath, ADHD person????? like i said, the only thing he hasnít done is kill me. But my ALIVENESS and soul is drowning. hahaha, I thought I could help! and this led me on a journey of self discovery. Since then, after a year, I moved yet again, leaving my job of almost 10 years, to find out if he was he one. he led me here? but did he? or is that the way my life was suppose to go? I have been through utter helllllllllllllllllll with him!My life has been turned upside down! he used me! bankruptcy from his dept that he said that he would repay, WHEN HE FOUND A JOB!!!!!!!!!!!!!! OMGGGGGGGG!!! I was so oblivious!! I followed through! i have never been so decieved or knew anyone of the sort who has ever been though this kind of behaviour. I was totally unaware.Until I met someone who was my "twinflame".....or god in his presence. it was something! something to believe in!?? i have never met anything of the sort as of yet? but he runs, and i dont blame him. i might do the same thing, if i were on that side looking in. maybe i have been running to? i dont wanna hurt him with this dysfunction!! i need to get out of this sane! or am i damaged?? should i leave him alone while im in this mess? dear god! what a mess! I just discovered the quote... let go and let god! thats the most powerful thing I have read to date. Learning to let go is the most difficult! but I understand it;) Venting now! Thank you!
Posted by re-write on January 18, 2014 - 07:29 pm
Original entry: 17. Peter - 2011-08-27 12:53:22

My dealings with psychopaths have left me struggling with my own self worth despite repeated efforts of no contact. I continue to somehow get lured into sending money. I donít know if itís the wording of her message or my complete inability to comprehend the situation. Am I an abuser or am I being abused? I have never in my life been so completely out of whack with who I am anymore.

Right now Iíve chosen to focus on my work and am seriously trying to find myself. As I do this Iíve found I have a tendency to reach out to others only to find myself been drawn into a bizarre web of contradictory and hypocritical behavior on my part. I now look at myself as having ulterior motives when I feel the urge to help someone when in fact my whole life Iíve felt the opposite. I have done exhaustive research into this personality disorder wanting desperately to confirm it has been me and not her. At the end of the day Iíve only messed myself up. Despite the fact Iíve been open and honest and subjected myself to criticism for my acts, in the end I cannot come clean of her. There always seems to be something that comes up and I hear from her. And please, donít think Iím not guilty of the same thing. And yet, when I reach out to her, I need to know she is ok and things are moving forward. But things donít ever work out that way. In the end I find myself sending money. Why does it always end up this way? Am I continuing to buy my way to keep contact? I donít want it to be that way and just want to be done. To not feel like itís me hanging on when I know itís over.

Reading about psychopaths has given me great insight into how minds work. Iíve continually maintained over the course of my life that Iím gullible. Am I capable of deceitful behavior? AbsolutelyÖ.but in my heart I want to do good and was so cleverly manipulated by a woman that my entire outlook and view on life has rendered me uncaring and downright mean in some situations. And yet, as I reflect upon those times I get mean, itís merely me telling another psychopathic woman that I am not putting up with her crap any longer. I am trying to work out being with another of these people. I am so stupid and silly. I need to get mentally healthy! I just want to be loved by a woman like I love her. Is that a psychopathic statement? Is that a line a psychopath would use on a woman? If I NEVER leech off a woman and do anything I can to make her comfortable and happy, often times at my expense emotionally and financially, am I psychopathic?

What messed me up early on was my undying love and devotion to a woman I loved beyond compare. I never cheated and put up with her behavior when it disturbed me and tried to say nothing. When I did say anything, I would be reprimanded and demeaned. Although I lost my balls, I reverted to the tactic of getting even and doing things just as bad as she did to me. It was a survival mechanism for me and although none of the encounters meant anything, I continued to endure a life of being pussy whipped.

I then had a woman come into my life that painted an amazing escape to my current situation. Through strange twists and turns, I now find myself right back where I started and reeling from the financial onslaught which continues to this day. What am I not getting in this picture? Why can I not stop contact? Why can I not ignore her when she reaches out to me even though we both know weíre done? I read so much on this subject, continue to berate myself believing I am psychopathic, and yet am drained continually the entire time trying to figure out what is going on.

Why am I having such a hard time figuring out if Iím a victim or a predator? What the hell has happened to me?
Posted by re-write on January 18, 2014 - 07:29 pm
Original entry: 16. Deb Knowlton - 2011-06-12 07:06:00
http://monstermomthepsychopath.blogspot.com/

I have to say I have read many opinions on this subject and also the behavioral traits. You have by far taken it to a different level of understanding.

My mother is a psychopath. I struggled my entire life in a state of confusion with little self esteem as you can imagine. The truth has given me the information needed to come to terms with my own person. I now see what I was lacking through the years and have started to heal.

Information is powerful.
Thank You for your insight and willingness to share.

My Blog monstermomthepsychopath.blogspot.com has allowed me to share my journey prior to my book "The Power Of Undeserved Loyalty" being published.

The Victims can become Victors.
Best Regards,
Deb
Posted by re-write on January 18, 2014 - 07:28 pm
Original entry: 15. FH ambassador Asia-Pacific - 2011-04-30 06:08:48

Hey, so you know about the
Posted by re-write on January 18, 2014 - 07:27 pm
Original entry: 14. christine hurley - 2010-12-06 13:22:37
http://www.christinehurley.com/

Hi..I love your write up but as I read I found you describing a narcissist and a misogynist..narciiccist donít grow up emotionally and a misogynist uses women to live of..
Easy signs to look for while meeting them its taken me five years to get this to a te...
SIGNS TO LOOK FOR
PSYCHOPATH.... they are pissed off with everyone work and ex oh man do they ever hate the ex... from there words total bitch...its all the other personís fault..within the first two meeting he will tell you something negative about yourself.
MISOGYNIST... he is looking for a mother and purse.. he is going to tell you all the sad stuff in his life and your going to fix it all for him... ohh man the guy is full of tradgy... Run like hell
NARCISSIST
something talking I donít need anyone I have it all.. he will do nice things for you make you feel special but you wonít see him three four times a week.. you will be one of many... look for the signs.. he will have a hair dryer..he will have ladies shampoo... and hair brushes.. your not the only one..
why do I know all this I was married to a misogynist took me 18 years to figure out what the hell it was .. I was in my second marriage didnít want to be a failour....
Narcissist... he was a boyfriend I didnít know a misogynist is also a narcissist... you will find most of these guys quiet because they are thinking of ways to manipulate you...they suck the very life core from you...YOUR need for approval is what attractes them.... Any man who comes near me now I ask myself "who are you" get them talking about the ex listen to him complain about money.. these guys are mean with money....if you go UH! twice on the first meeting run like hell.... that is your warning sign...... good look girls sorry for spelling ... or grammer.. Im in a hurry and wanted to add this.
Posted by re-write on January 18, 2014 - 07:26 pm
Original entry: 13. I know iím not crazy - 2010-05-20 07:42:13

we have a psychopath in the family. he has a new bride who he convinced that the past 12 yrs of my marriage to his brother has been a fake. convinced her to the point that she was setup to convince my husband ! i can go on and on and on. . . i feel sorry for her but thereís nothing i can do and iím not getting involved cause my marriage is too important to me. i left calling him a psychopath and telling her to get a good support group. i left there drained out of my mind. he vowed to stay connected to my husband. my hubby doesnít want to, but, when these people are determined to do something, theyíre almost unstoppable.
Posted by re-write on January 18, 2014 - 07:26 pm
Original entry: 12. Mike H - 2010-03-05 14:26:20

If Im correct I saw a ton of photos of a concert I was at in 1988 of Frank Zappa in Teaneck NJ I was 18 at this concert and sat near the back right I had no idea the stage was in chaos like that. Hilarious was a wonderful last Zappa concert. He died before I could go to another. I been sad every day since his death.
Posted by re-write on January 18, 2014 - 07:25 pm
Original entry: 11. StevenW - 2010-01-29 08:11:37

Read your page on psychopaths and was very impressed with your "real world" description of the problem they pose for the rest of us. Your reference to the "smirk" grin tendency especially hit home. As a former law enforcement officer, I dealt with psychopaths on an almost daily basis, and I would recognize that smirk anywhere. They didnít even have to open their mouths; it was like they were wearing a sign. As for their increasing in number, Lord help us all. They arenít described as "interspecies predators" for nothing.
Posted by re-write on January 18, 2014 - 07:25 pm
Original entry: 10. Wishtoremainanon - 2009-04-26 12:02:19

To the author/creator of this website, in particular the psychopathy section. Not so long ago I encountered my first sociopath. This is the first site which so accurately describes this person more than any other I have visited. The thing which still haunts me today is how great an impact emotionally and mentally this person had in my life in such a short space of time. I donít know if anyone has ever read or has knowledge of psychopathís whose goal is to drive someone to suicide and therefore have to accept no responsibility for their death. If so, this would interest me immensely because I am still in the learning process of what happened to me. I found that educating myself on the type of person I was dealing with was healing to my spirit and mind.

Thank you for this site.
Posted by re-write on January 18, 2014 - 07:24 pm
Original entry: 9. jm - 2009-02-13 05:24:17

Good that you have added to the information about psycopathy.

It is increasingly clear that this is not a treatable condition. But rather a genetic variation of human; a preditor/preditor of and by the species.

There are a few sites (books) that (correctly) observe that our current civilization is based upon what psycopaths (and their friends) have done in all cultures past. And are doing now.

I do not think using the words "psychotic" and "psycho" is appropriate. In general psycopaths are not psychotic. They are not mentally ill in the same sense a schizophrenic is. Although they can be.

J
Posted by re-write on January 18, 2014 - 07:23 pm
Original entry: 8. Terrie Collins - 2009-01-18 00:18:30

Reading this has been very helpful to me as I was involved with a sociopath.
Posted by re-write on January 18, 2014 - 07:23 pm
Original entry: 7. Psychopathís Wife - 2008-10-26 01:41:21

This site is fantastic. I left my husband in mid August this year, just 1 month shy of our first wedding anniversary. I knew him for five years as a friend. I always thought he was a little aloof. Then after dating for around 4 months he proposed. We were engaged for 5 months, then married. He was always a little moody.

Well, once I had that wedding ring on, he became a demanding, controlling and abusive man. In every way conceivable.

He punched me, that was the end for me.

We went to counselling, which was useless, he basically told the counsellor he was perfect and I was a nagging wife.

I realised something wasnít right with him, I noticed suddenly, he was lying, about so much.

I booked him into a psychiatrist. He went, I went. I asked the psychiatrist what he thought is the problem. He told me he is like "Mugabe" a psychopath with narcissism.

He told me to leave him. Two days later I packed and left.

I am heart broken, yet relieved, I can go home after work and not get yelled at.

Walking on eggshells is not fun at all.
We are currently at court, I got a protection order as my husband would not leave me alone, calling, abusing me via emails etc

Three weeks later he got one against me, itís completely ficticious. I couldnít believe he would stoop so low. Yet after speaking to many people, he is just proving what he is. A psychopath!

This man has sucked the life and energy out of me, no he is taking every cent that I earn in litigation fees. I know I will win the battle of getting a protection order. The psychiatrist told me keep all evidence.

I have folders of the emails, printouts of the website he has set up in my honor with photos of myself and my seven year old daughter.

Scary thing is, my husband is only 23 years old. He is very street wise as I have learned, just not very clever.

I think he may be dyslexic too. His brother is.

His mother is just like him, she puts on the charming facade, but wow she sends me vicious letters threatening me now.

I fear meeting another man like this, I fear for my daughter meeting a man like this one day.



Thank such an informative website.
Posted by re-write on January 18, 2014 - 07:21 pm
Original entry: 6. - 2008-07-02 00:18:47

Curious as to how a person would know who was psycho and who wasnít...and also, myimagination ran a little wild when I read the part about psychopath could become the dominant behavior. You know more and more people are learnin about this stuff. What if, they learn this stuff, and decide their psychopathic, and like unite against all the people that are emotional wrecks? Thatíd be some wild shit. Weíd call it the war of the brains. lol But the real wild thing is, the psychopaths would win because they donít have anything to hold them back. after reading this site, iím pretty sure most people are learning if they are or not. Your music is interesting, pretty cool! I am wondering how many of the traits of these you have?

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Posted by re-write #24 on January 18, 2014 - 07:35 pm
This entry from the first guestbook has yet to be found on a back up copy. If and when I find it, I will add it here.
Posted by re-write on January 18, 2014 - 07:33 pm
Original entry: 23. Puddle - 2013-01-08 08:46:05

Check out the song "Dogs" on Pink Floyd Animals. Very psychopathic oriented.