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Posted by re-write on January 18, 2014 - 07:21 pm
Original entry: 5. --- - 2008-01-31 05:53:17

Thanks for writing up this website! You have a lot of knowledge on the subject. I dated a psychopath (true psychopath as Dr. Hare says; people who are born like that, because this one was from a very decent family) for 1 year and was in touch for another year. For the whole year I dated him, I used to think something was wrong with me and I need to work on myself. My self esteem had gone so low. At that time I was totally unaware of anything related to Psychopathy. I pride myself in being a natural psychologist and I think I stuck with just so that I can figure him out but that didnít happen and I broke up as I could not tolerate his mind games anymore. But After that I was in touch over phoneemail and also met him thrice over a period of 9 months. It was during this time that his guards were lower and he would confide a lot in me. Would say things that he wouldnít say when we were dating. Those kind of things made me question a whole lot of things like liespretentionshis true self. When I met him for the third time after 9 motnhs of breaking up, it was this time when I saw a his true self. After I went home I was so sick, and I donít know how out of the blue it occured to me that he is not normal, something is really wrong with the way his brain works and I wanted to know if he was a "psychopath". The word just occured to me out of the blue. I didnít even know the definition or all the characteristics. So I started searching online and I can across one with some characteristics listed. As I was reading each point, I was having flash of episodes matching each of those chaarcteristics with him. After that I was so scared for about 2 months without any contact with him. Then after two montsh of silence, he pinged me on messenger and I talked very briefly and formally as I did not want to upset him by ignoring. After that he would contact me about twice a week and I would just talk very little. One day I thought well I never met him in person after I had "known" so I decided to meet him for dinner, still hoping maybe I am wrong. But no. I saw him showing his colors twice though very momentarily like a flash. I donít feel like going into details right now. I actually met him once more after that, maybe because now that I know he is a psycho I get a thrill in his presence because I feel so much more superior to him now that I know I have the upper hand. He doesnít even know that I know.I donít hate him anymore or blame for past. He was born like that. That is not his fault. Surprisingly, he does try to be nice with people that serve his needs. He just canít stay nice for anytime long. He is funny, now he wants to get married (I am not dating him, but "arranged" marriages are common in my culture) to me, but I wonít get into hell knowingly.

But again, I really liked your website, it is one of the best with more authentic knowledge on the subject. Most other sites mix up sociopaths with true psychopaths. This guy is a true psychopath. Sometimes it is just funny how his mind works, like a little kid. I feel the only reason his is not out killing people or more abusive because he is from a really good well knit family. I read psychopathy is hereditary. I think he got it from his grandfather. He keeps bragging about him.
Posted by re-write on January 18, 2014 - 07:20 pm
Original entry: 4. Karen - 2007-05-31 10:32:29

I am married to a psychopath and believe me it is hell. Although I am very frightened, I pray I can get out of this in one piece.
Posted by re-write on January 18, 2014 - 07:18 pm
Original entry: 3. anonymous - 2007-05-19 19:52:30

i didnt know what was wrong with me until i read this page!!! i am actually a female, and i believe i match every symptom. Iím pretty open with my problems, and i have no problem with admitting to them when i know what they are. I couldnt figure out why i am the way that i am. I dont hurt anyone though, and i have no intentions to. Actually i like helping my friends or even people i dont even know and try to make people feel better about their situations. this article has explained to me alot about why i keep having problems in my marriage or why i do everything or feel the way i do? first i thought it was my husband, and i kept telling him he needed to do this or that to make "me" happy, but then i started to think it was me? I dont know, but i took a quiz and it said i had a borderline personality disorder, so i read up on that, and then a whole bunch of other stuff that led me to this site.
i must have alot of stuff wrong with me. I fit the borderline personality, the obsessive compulsiveness disorder, antisocial, and the psychopathy traits.
though i have a concience! i have high morals, and im not just saying that. I think just hearing all of this made me a "little" better. Iíll talk with my husband, and have him read all of it. I know my limits with stress and get help when i need it. I just dont see how any of my family members or friends couldnt tell me these things about me or help me. I had to figure all of this out on my own.
I do know alot of guys that are Psychos. I always wondered why i was attracted to them (borderline pers. disorder - i have every symptom listed)
maybe now i wont completely lose my mind because i know now why i feel and act the way i do. Good thing i figured this out, im almost 21, married, and have son. I thought it was just postpartum, or because i married at a young age? but actually its something thats been developing for a really long time.
Iíve been losing my mind more and more because i couldnt figure out why i felt the way i did, and i couldnt find any answers.
but anyway, thank you for the site, and i just wanted to let you know it really helped me and my sanity
Posted by re-write on January 18, 2014 - 07:17 pm
Original entry: 2. John - 2007-05-03 16:35:52

great site. really nice job. kudos, my friend.

Posted by Ken Windish on January 18, 2014 - 07:15 pm
Hi and thanks for visiting my second Guestbook! My first one was hosted off-site and folded without warning. Thank goodness I made backup copies of it and am able to re-create the entries here in order. The original guestbook had a URL input field; these URLs are provided when entered. Finally, the backups for entry numbers 1 and 24 still need to be found. I will add these when I find them.

The first entry was just my short welcome message:
Originally posted on 3 May 2007, ca. 15:00

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Posted by re-write #24 on January 18, 2014 - 07:35 pm
This entry from the first guestbook has yet to be found on a back up copy. If and when I find it, I will add it here.
Posted by re-write on January 18, 2014 - 07:33 pm
Original entry: 23. Puddle - 2013-01-08 08:46:05

Check out the song "Dogs" on Pink Floyd Animals. Very psychopathic oriented.